Pubdate: Sun,  1 Jun 2003
Source: Garden Island (HI)
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Copyright: 2003 Kauai Publishing Co.
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Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/964
Author: Kendyce Manguchei 
Note: To read more about the "ice epidemic" in Hawaii, go to
http://www.mapinc.org/areas/Hawaii .

TV'S "COACH" GIVES PEP TALK AT DRUG SUMMIT

We may all know Craig T. Nelson as Hayden Fox from the 1980s sitcom "Coach"
or as Chief of Police Jack Mannion on the CBS show "The District." The
television and film star was invited to the county's fourth community drug
summit Thursday night to speak about "choices." 

Malia Rosa-Tokioka, the popular local singer and teen substance abuse
counselor for a drug treatment center called Hina Mauka, was also invited to
speak.

What the two have in common is recovery from drug addiction. The lesson was:
If they can fall prey to addiction, so can you, your mom or your dad, or
your kids, teachers, neighbors and friends. Recovery is possible with
patience, support and love. About 150 people showed up at the meeting, held
at Kapa'a Elementary School's cafetorium.

Nelson said that through belief in a higher power, he has been sober for 19
years, about the same length of time he's been a visitor of Kaua'i. 

Rosa-Tokioka quoted Proverbs 14:12: "Before every person there lies a wide
and pleasant road. It seems and feels right; but this road ends in death." 

"Many of our young people today are following a road that some of us have
already been on and some of us may be on right now … Not knowing that once
on this road, it's almost impossible to turn back," she added.

She hit bottom, she said, when she was indicted for drug possession and
faced a 10-year term of imprisonment. Her son, then about 2, would also have
been taken from her. Thanks to God and "tough love" from her family, she
said she was able to recover and the process gave her back her sanity, her
health, her career and a love for life. 

Rosa-Tokioka has been drug-free for 15 years and alcohol-free since 1995. At
the end of her talk, she sang the song "We Can Make a Difference," which
talks about believing in the power of good to change people's lives.

"I'm an alcoholic and a drug addict," said Nelson, who's been sober for 19
years. 

His interest in helping Kauaians fight the battle against ice led him to
attend two of the mayor's summit meetings early this year that included
professionals in drug treatment, prevention and counseling. He called ice an
"insidious drug … (one) that's accelerated beyond anyone's imaginations."

He commented on how Kaua'i seems to have a lot of despair and not much hope.
But he said he has faith that people here can cultivate the feeling of
'ohana and closeness.

"My experience is that all of us have to come to grips that we're on an
incredible spiritual journey and that god can and will deal with this,"
Nelson continued. 

He credited his wife, Doria, for going to an Al-Anon meeting about 21 years
ago and decided she didn't want to "play the game" with him any longer. If
she hadn't taken the step, he said he believes he'd probably already be
dead.

"When I asked Craig to speak, I didn't know he had a problem. I asked him
because when I saw him on TV, I saw a man who could motivate people,"
Baptiste said.

"What I learned was that this is not discriminatory. It doesn't come from
the so-called bad neighborhoods, the low-income families …" Baptiste added.

About 150 people attended the meeting, organized jointly between the County
of Kaua'i and Kawaihau Community Leadership Coalition. Kawaihau district
encompasses areas from Wailua River to Kealia River.

Like the other drug summits, the mass was divided into smaller groups. When
meeting moderators Mary Jo Sweeney and Jan Carmichael directed the mayor to
"count off" the seven groups, a worried mumbling sound echoed in the
cafetorium. 

Some married couples refused to take different numbers and be split apart
for 30 minutes. The dozen or so high school students in attendance were
separated from their parents. Four inmates at Kaua'i Community Correctional
Center were in attendance and participated in the group sessions. 

"This was a more diverse group of people, so I would say it's the most
successful meeting we had so far," said Roy T. Nishida, the county's drug
programs coordinator.

"We need more places for kids to go, because they have nothing to do on the
weekends," said volleyball player and new Kapa'a High graduate, 18-year-old
Heather Borges. Another senior, Ulu Torio, said that more in-your-face,
"scared straight" programs and assemblies would work on students.

Kapa'a Middle School 7th grader and peer educator Kalei Gonzales agreed:
More facilities are needed to keep kids busy, she said. 

"Getting a facility for kids and adults so the adults can have a place to
play sports, and the kids can follow their parents' example, and keep them
off the street," was Wailua Homesteads resident Gary Maguire's top priority.

Mardi Maione, a Hina Mauka substance abuse counselor and chairperson of the
Kaua'i Drug Free Coalition, said that consistent community education and
meetings like the county's drug summits are important.

Shane Segreti, in 10th grade at Kamehameha School, agreed that when he comes
home for summer or winter vacation, a lot of his friends here are getting
into trouble. 

"At Kamehameha School, a lot of people don't want to pass up the education,
because what's all the sense to get kicked out?" he said. His friend, Lance
Kuwamura, a 10th grader from Kapa'a, said that his school is "pretty much
cruise."

The first round of drug summits ended Saturday, May 31 with a meeting for
the West Side at Waimea Plantation Cottages, from 8n11 a.m. Lieutenant
Governor James "Duke" Aiona and Dr. Al Bronstein, medical director of
Hawai'i's Regional Poison Control Center were the scheduled speakers.

Sidebar:

Kawaihau's Drug Summit Key Issues And Needs:

* Presence of federal law enforcement agents to assist in drug operations

* Classes about conflict resolution and anger management

* Facilities where kids and adults could participate in sports, workshops
and other activities together - children could learn from their parents'
examples 

* Lighting at parks to deter people from selling and doing drugs

* Strengthening communities with neighborhood pot-lucks

* Stricter consequences for smoking, drug and alcohol use in school, besides
in-school detention

* More safe, drug-free activities for teen-agers, especially on weekends,
and more places to hold these activities

* A hotline for teens and parents

* Listen to youth to find out what they need and want

* Residential drug treatment facility - when people are sentenced and
brought to jail, they aren't getting help, they're getting "warehoused"

* Responsibility and accountability of parents

* Youth who have too much time on their hands 

* Too much money is being spent on youth after they enter the criminal
justice system, not before

* Community involvement in churches and faith-based groups

* Require inmates to be educated about drug addiction

* Forming community watchdog groups
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