Pubdate: Tue, 07 Jan 2003 Source: Oklahoman, The (OK) Copyright: 2003 The Oklahoma Publishing Co. Contact: http://www.oklahoman.com/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/318 Author: Scott Brien Referenced: http://www.mapinc.org/drugnews/v02/n2317/a13.html STAY INVOLVED TO THE EDITOR: I am 100 percent in agreement with "'Don't Do It at All'; Pot's Dangers Should Alarm Parents" (editorial, Dec. 23). Children metabolize drugs differently than adults. My daughter tried it and the consequences were severe: No telephone. No friends over. No going to friends' houses. A written essay on marijuana and a search of the Bible about Christian responsibilities, actions and consequences. She also gets surprise drug tests. You're right in saying parental involvement is critical. Too many people have children but don't want the responsibility of parenthood. If you want children, that's fine. If you both want to work, that's fine too. But stagger your schedules so one of you is home with the child. Daycare centers aren't responsible for raising your children. You are! If you don't, won't or can't do this, then do everyone a favor and don't bring anymore throwaways into the world. Children aren't trash. They are a shining, bright light full of warmth and love -- if they are nourished. Scott Brien, Norman - --- MAP posted-by: Richard Lake