Pubdate: Sat, 06 Apr 2002 Source: Ottawa Citizen (CN ON) Copyright: 2002 The Ottawa Citizen Contact: http://www.canada.com/ottawa/ottawacitizen/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/326 Author: Bill Ross Referenced: http://www.mapinc.org/drugnews/v02/n639/a07.html EARN RESPECT As a parent, I have the respect of my children, not because I am in authority but because I earned it. Should I fail to continually earn their respect, it is their human nature and right to rebel against my false authority which has deviated from facts and thus rests on bad assumptions and unearned trust. Teens laugh at authority because authority has failed to earn their respect. This can be remedied by beating them into submission, substituting fear for respect or by respecting people enough to earn their trust. Unfortunately, the former option is still in vogue. Bill Ross, Ottawa - --- MAP posted-by: Richard Lake