Pubdate: Thu, 21 Feb 2002 Source: The Advocate-Messenger (KY) Copyright: 2002 The Advocate-Messenger Contact: http://www.amnews.com/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/1253 Referenced: http://www.mapinc.org/drugnews/v02/n299/a01.html?1745 Author: David Banks Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/youth.htm (Youth) IF YOUR KIDS ARE SELLING DRUGS, TURN THEM IN Dear Editor: I am saddened by the letters in Wednesday's Advocate from Ryan Shangraw's stepmother and sister. Any time young lives are lost, it is tragic. I do not know many details about the case. I cannot help but believe, however, that drugs played some part in the killings. Even in the unlikely event they did not, what other motive do the police have to go on? If I were a police officer, that would certainly be the place I would choose to begin my investigation. I think to say that they are not looking for the murderer is unfair and premature. The sister's letter is even more unsettling. She loved her brother, looked up to him, and misses him. That's how it is supposed to be. However, if she knew he was a drug dealer (making $1,000 a day sounds like more than being "just a little caught up in selling drugs"), then surely the rest of his family had to know it as well. I don't know Jennifer's age, but surely someone realized how many other people's lives her brother's activities were affecting, not to mention the risks he was taking for himself. I have been a teacher for most of my adult life, and I would not even want to guess the numbers of kids I've known personally who have gone through difficulties, even tragedies, due to the influence of drugs by family members or "friends" of the family. Fights, rapes, killings, divorces, child and spouse abuse -- all these things and more -- kids have had to go through because drugs were in use. If someone in a kid's family was using, they had to buy the stuff from somebody. I hope it wasn't Ryan, but how can anyone know? The drug community is a violent one. Lives are lost every day. This time, it hit home. Many suppliers would not hesitate two minutes to make an example out of one dealer over some small issue. There are also some parents out there who would feel more than justified in shooting a person who had helped get their child hooked on drugs. I don't know that either of these things happened in this case. Whatever really happened is left for the police to try to find out. My main point is this: If I had a parent or a child or a brother or a friend and I knew that person was involved in dealing drugs, the first thing I would do is turn them in to the authorities. No matter how much you love them, or how much trouble they are going to be in, what they are doing is wrong and it is bad. By reporting them, you might just prevent another tragedy like the one on Feb. 1. You also might prevent some 5-year-old child's life from being ruined or some horrid highway accident from taking the lives of a van load of Girl Scouts. The list of good things that could happen is endless. I am truly sorry for the families of both the young men who were lost, and my intention is not to make the pain they are already feeling any worse. If I have done that, please forgive me. I hope they will find peace. David Banks, Liberty - --- MAP posted-by: Jackl