Pubdate: Thu, 05 Sep 2002
Source: Log Cabin Democrat (AR)
Copyright: 2002 The Log Cabin Democrat
Contact:  http://thecabin.net/
Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/548
Author: Jim Davidson, Cabin Columnist

PRESCRIPTION DRUGS CAN BE ADDICTIVE

A few days ago I got a very touching letter from a young man who was in 
jail in another state. He begins by saying, "I saw your article about drugs 
and not knowing who your friends are. Someone brought a newspaper into the 
cell and I found it on the table. Reading about the two young men reminded 
me that it is not only young, college-age people who get into real trouble 
because of drugs." He then began to tell me, in a three-page handwritten 
letter, the most horrible story about events in his life that led to his 
incarceration and the loss of his family, at least for the time being.

It should be understood here that presenting columns of this nature bring 
me no real pleasure, because we would all rather hear about success and 
other positive things, but if my column helps thousands of people avoid the 
pitfalls of using drugs, it will be worth it all. The true-life experience 
this young man related to me is especially fitting because it is not about 
illegal drugs, but about prescription drugs that have been his undoing. 
There are a number of issues in his story that can touch each of us and I 
bet you can figure out what they are.

Here are some of the details that may place you inside his skin so that you 
can feel and experience some of the things that he is experiencing. He said 
that soon after graduating from college his wife gave birth to their third 
child, a son, and she later returned to work at the local hospital, while 
he remained home to take care of the children. (Keep in mind that this is 
his story.)

In August he noticed that his right arm was going to sleep even when he was 
up and about. Within a month the numbness was replaced with a throbbing 
pain. After he consulted his family doctor and went through a number of 
ordered tests, he was prescribed pain medication.

He remained on the pain medication until he underwent spinal fusion surgery 
the following May. While on the mend from the surgery he was prescribed a 
stronger version, Percocet 10mg and then he noticed that both of his legs 
were burning, even though he was on this medication. At this point he 
consulted the same neurosurgeon who had performed the first surgery. The 
diagnosis was another spinal fusion surgery and again was prescribed 
another pain medication, this time Valium 10mg was also added. He said his 
family could tell that something had changed in him, but they were the only 
ones until now.

On the morning of April 22, the day after his baby son's second birthday, 
he awoke around 10:30 a.m. and found his two school age watching their 
little brother. He had not gotten up to take the children to school. Being 
arrested by the state police at his brother's house was the next thing he 
remembered.

At this point, I am going to break in and summarize his story. This man 
left his three children and went to call his wife who was 100 miles away, 
working at another hospital. After he got to his brother's house, he looked 
and could not find his son. The creek behind the house was up and he just 
knew he had fallen into it, so he called 911. The police and rescue squad 
arrived and after a thorough search, the child could not be found.

All of his children were found three days later at an apartment and he was 
charged with three counts of felony abandonment and for DUI. He had been in 
jail for 42 days because his bail was so high he could not raise it. The 
rest of his story about the consequences of his actions is even sadder, but 
as he said, "I had never used drugs before and the prescription drugs were 
a new false sense of security for me." He concludes with these words, "I 
can only wait and hope for the best; I hope my family will still want me." 
The point is simple. You, or I, can get hooked on prescription drugs.
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