Pubdate: Mon, 31 Dec 2001
Source: Grand Island Independent (NE)
Copyright: 2001 Grand Island Independent
Contact:  http://www.theindependent.com/
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GRANDPARENTS ALSO CAN TALK TO YOUTH ABOUT DRUG ABUSE

Most of the 60 million grandparents in the United States do not 
realize the important role they play in influencing their 
grandchildren's lives -- especially when it comes to drugs. According 
to AARP, grandparents cite drugs, alcohol, and sex as the most 
difficult topics to discuss with their grandkids.

Grandparents are looking for guidance on how to talk to their 
grandkids about difficult topics. In fact, according to a recent AARP 
survey, 54 percent of grandparents would find information about 
discussing drugs somewhat or very useful. Here are a few strategies 
for grandparents to keep their grandkids drug free:

Start -- It is never too early to prevent your grandchildren from 
trying drugs. Simple gestures, such as letting your grandchild know 
you care, serve as protective factors and play an important role in 
deterring them from drugs. State your position clearly and often. One 
of the major reasons teens decide not to use drugs is the fear that 
their parents or other family members will lose respect for them. 
Teens do not want to let down their families.

Connect -- Take the opportunity to build lines of communication and 
do things regularly with your grandkids. Spend time together -- eat 
dinner with them, read together, play a game, go shopping, go to the 
movies, attend a baseball game or go sightseeing together. Use 
opportunities like family gatherings or inviting your grandchildren 
to stay overnight to show that fun things don't require drugs.

Listen -- Take a more active interest in what is going on in your 
grandchild's life. Listen to his or her cares and concerns by 
fostering family openness and communication. In this way, youngsters 
will feel more comfortable to open up to you when they need your 
advice.

For free resources on the Internet, check out the Web site at 
www.theantidrug.com/grandparents for tips to help grandparents 
discuss substance abuse with their grandchildren. Or, visit the 
Central Nebraska Council on Alcoholism at 219 W. Second St., or call 
385-5520.

Prevention Works! is provided by the Central Nebraska Council on 
Alcoholism in Grand Island. CNCA is supported in part by Hall County, 
Heartland United Way, and federal and state funds through the 
Nebraska Department of Public Institutions-Division on Alcoholism and 
Drug Abuse and Region III Substance Abuse and Mental Health 
Administration.
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